10 Unique RSVP Card Questions to Get Your Guests Excited

Let's be honest, RSVPs can sometimes be a chore to fill out and return. The transactional end of the invitation, RSVPs are often just another deadline for people to meet. But who says the RSVP has to be all business and no fun? Why not get your guests excited to réspondez with a question that gets them excited and invites them to actively participate in your big day? I've created a list of creative questions to add to your RSVP card that will not only be useful for you but will give your invitations that extra personal touch.

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Of course, you absolutely need to get the essential information: attends/declines, dietary requirements and/or meal choice, opting in or out of transport options, etc. But there's always room for one more question!

Check out my top 10 list:

1. "What’s Your Go-To Dance Move?"

The dance floor is where people like to let loose, so why not get your guests excited early by asking them to share their signature dance moves? Not only will this get them thinking about the fun they’ll have, but it also helps your DJ or band prepare for the kind of set list that will fill the dance floor. It’s a playful way to set the tone for a lively reception.

2. "Describe Our Love Story in One Word"

Whether their answers are sentimental, humorous, or full of inside jokes, this question is a fun way to engage your guests and gather a collection of words that capture your love story in a unique way. These can even be incorporated into your wedding décor or guest book for a personal touch.

5. "What’s Your Marriage Advice in Six Words or Less?"

Distilling marriage advice into just six words is both challenging and fun. This question encourages your guests to think deeply about what makes a marriage work, while also keeping it light and memorable. Whether the advice is serious, funny, or a mix of both, it creates a little piece of treasure for your and your partner to look back on.

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6. "What Should We Name Our Signature Cocktail?"

Naming a signature cocktail is a creative way to involve your guests in the finer details of your wedding. This question will get their creative juices going and invite them to contribute to the atmosphere of your big day. The winning name could end up on the menu, making your guests feel even more connected to the celebration.

7. "Who Would You Cast In A Rom Com About Us?"

Adding a dash of humor and speculation, this question allows guests to decide who would play you in the movie of your lives. It’s a fun conversation starter for people on the day and could even spark some lively debates! It's a light-hearted way to engage your guests and add a bit of fun to the RSVP process.

8. "What’s One Thing You’re Looking Forward to at the Wedding?"

This is all about building anticipation and excitement. By asking guests what they’re most looking forward to, you’re giving them a chance to express their excitement and create some anticipation about the bit day. It also gives you insight into what’s most important to them, helping you make those moments even more special.

9. "What's Your Favorite Cocktail?"

If you're planning on having a signature drink on your wedding menu or as part of your cocktail hour, why not ask your guests what they like? That way you're ensuring your cocktail choice is a hit with guests and adding a little personal touch to your beverage selection. Plus, you might discover a new favorite cocktail for yourself!

10. "What's Your Go-To Karaoke Song?"

Whether you’re planning a karaoke session or just want to know more about your guests’ musical tastes, this question adds a fun twist to your RSVP card. Knowing their go-to karaoke song might inspire you to include a sing-along segment during the reception or just give you a few ideas for the playlist!

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Planning your wedding should be fun and incorporating creative questions on your RSVP cards is a great place to start. If you’re looking for beautifully designed wedding stationery that reflects your unique style, be sure to drop by All Together Now!